Is it possible to spend a winter without heat?

With rising energy costs, our correspondent bundles up and tests his theory that central heating is only for wimps

Sex advice: my girlfriend doesn't enjoy oral sex

I've discovered my girlfriend of four months doesn't like to receive oral sex. Am I doing something wrong?

Sex advice: My wife has discovered my bondage gear

Now the secret's out a reader wants to know if he can persuade his partner that bondage is a good idea

How to break the cycle of divorce

Author Daisy Goodwin was 5 when her parents split. After 21 years of marriage she would never put her daughters through it

Why are men unfaithful?

A new report suggests there's a genetic reason, but experts argue that's just a convenient excuse

I can't tell my stepsister I had an abortion

I could not tell my stepsister about my unwanted pregnancy as she was undergoing IVF for a child she desperately wanted

I fantasise about murder to save my marriage

A woman in her fifties speaks of the torment caused by her deceitful but charming 72-year-old husband’s affair with a carer

Sex advice: high-tech fun with the Philips Intimate Massager

The electronics giant has unveiled its new sleek and sexy Intimate Massager. But does it work?

Aunt Sally: I can't stand my mother

I can’t stand my mother, yet she has a hold over me, even though I put as much distance between us as possible

• Aunt Sally: I want to apologise to my boyfriend’s ex for our affair

• Aunt Sally: My boyfriend and I are constantly breaking up